Monday, March 16, 2009

care...

Assalamualaikum w.b.t,

It's 5.55 am and im hardly feeling sleepy. even better my class today begins at 8. i wonder whether will i be awake to attend the class. BTW, just now, I watched Chuck wic I got it from my roomate, Syareen (thanks a lot ya!!!). as the above title, just wanna share, when i watched chuck just now, there is this one sentence (wic was said by sarah a.k.a chuck's cover girlfriend) that sum kinda touched me. she said,

"when you meet somebody you cared about, it's just hard to walk away...".

i need to agree with that. it is usually when you cared for someone, it is very hard which is almost impossible to stop caring about that person. no matter what happen, u just cant stop yourself. there will always be a part of you that will remember that person. worrying and wishing that only the best thing for that person. you would pray that nothing bad will fall on that particular person. even if he/she did not know that you cared so much but it doesnt matter coz the important thing is you care. you feel like you're responsible for that person.

but there are times where you care for a person, you tend not to express it out loud. you pray for the person like only God knows how but when you're with that person, you act like you dont even give a d**n about whatever that involves that person. it is not wrong to act that way, but it may hurt the feeling of the people whom you cared about especially if the person is close to you. he/she might end up believing that you never cared at all. again, it is not wrong as not everyone can express what they feel towards a person. it is pretty hard for me too :P... i do wish things could change but im trying... i do try... i want to make things better for everyone i cared about i.e my family, my friends and those other people whom i cared and meant almost everything for me...(even if they didn't know that i cared)...

the reason why i believe that if you really care you should express it and say it out loud is because it would benefit both you and that person. at least that person knows that he/she can count on someone when they needed help as they know that only the people who really cared would be there for them no matter what. that's the unique thing about caring. you tend to bear everything without feeling tired or even hurt. you wouldnt feel any burden if you were to face any difficulties being with your loved ones. the feeling of knowing that someone cared for you is priceless. you just cant get it anywhere. it is there just fo you. and to have that feeling means you need to have someone who cared for you. if you would want that, you must first care about people. once you do, people will care about you...

back to the quote, it is hard to walk away from the people you care because you would want the person whom you cared about to have someone to hold on to. you know that leaving that person would leave that person vulnerable and near to being hurt. you cant walk away coz you know that leaving would do more harm than good. it would just make things worst instead of making it better. e.g, in new moon by stephanie meyer (yeah the twilight saga...), there is this part where edward left bella coz he thinks that it is the best for her, he actually end up hurting her so much. so, what im trying to say is that when you leave the person whom you cared about, you'll hurt that person with or without you noticizing it. and at the same time, you'll actually hurt yourself a million times more.

in conclusion, when you cared about someone, show that you care. try to express what you feel coz you'll never know what will happen next or in the future. things might change, where you might lost the person you cared, you'll realize that if you were to let that person know that you really cared, things might not end up like that. it might turn out better. rather than losing the person, you might get to know that person better and you'll might got to feel the feeling of being cared about. so, if you have someone whom you really cared about but you didnt let that person know about it, tell them. tell them you cared about them. tell them that they mean a lot to you...let them know that they mean everything to you...it wont hurt to care right??? tell your parents, your friends, your loved ones that you care. let them know what you feel...

i read this quotation from a book, it doesn't really relate but it does sum kinda have a connection, it is from a person who's being left by the person she cared about...

"you said that you care, then why did you leave?..."

trust me, it would not be something that you would want to hear from someone or experience it yourself...

till then, toddles...
a'kum...

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